Things I hate to think about while writing: grammar.
Honestly, I could care less about grammar. I figure someone else can fix it after me. And herein lies (one of) my biggest faults (but I’m working on it.) It’s a part of editing of course, which I don’t mind doing, but making sure a comma is in the right spot makes me want to tear my eyes out.
Okay, I’m over exaggerating.
I’m what I like to call ‘comma crazy’. I like commas and I tend to put them in places they don’t grammatically need to be. This is mostly because at times I tend to write the way I speak, so when I pause in speech I add a comma even when there doesn’t need to be one.
I’m dragging my feet. I know the truth is that my writing is my responsibility. Even those pesky commas.
I shouldn’t rely on someone else to fix my work, no one should. Yes, there are editors for a reason, but we as writers shouldn’t have them doing our job.
We are in charge of what our prose conveys and how our prose manages to convey that message.
When we write a story it’s up to us to change a sentence that doesn’t make sense. It’s up to us to delete the random commas. (Many slip through…and I’m going to say that’s okay.)
This isn’t really about grammar, it’s caring about the language you choose to tell your story. I use to think I could write a story and hand it off to someone else to polish it. That made me sloppy and less caring about the order I decided to put my words.
And there’s the point.
Care about the way in which your order language. It’s not up to someone else to better order your sentence structure, it’s yours.
write feverishly without concern for grammar and structure and go back after and fix it. And I use Grammarly, it’s a free download to fix my comma problem lol. I’m not giving advice just a friendly suggestion
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Thanks!!
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my apologies for offering a talented writer such as yourself advice, you don’t need it. I should have offered in the context of “hey this is what I do”. Please don’t think of me as a presumptive ass
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No I didn’t mind at all! If I ever get to the point in my life where I don’t consider someone’s advice I think I might have a problem! Hahaha.
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We all have something like that, don’t we? I always have to go back and take out about a quarter of my prepositional phrases. I should make it a new years resolution.
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Yes! haha I’m so paranoid with my commas nowadays that I question the ones I know are supposed to go.
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I feel this. Though mine isn’t so much with commas as it is with dashes and over using them (I’m just a fan of long sentences, haha.)
Write how it is easiest for you. You’ll find when you read over it that it’s easier to go back and correct something then it is to stress about it at the time.
And I did an editing course last year as part of my degree and what I’ve found is that doing a lot of exercises about certain grammatical areas engrains them into your mind (at least for me).
Im rambling, I apologise!
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I think I’ll try that out- doing exercises focused on one grammar issue I have.
I love dashes, too. I tend to over use them when writing poetry. lol!
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At least you know that in poetry, where you but the comma matters less! You can just call it a stylistic choice and that’s how it should flow.
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The beauty of fiction is that you can take some license with punctuation and convention. What I was taught though is that you have to learn the rules, before you can break them.
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I agree! I don’t always like the rules, but I know the more I’m intuned with my grammar the better my sentences come out.
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I relate to this so much!
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Commas are my bane. We should create a “I hate commas” club.
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Haha! We should 😂
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Great post! I’m exactly the same with commas 🙂 A teacher actually told me once that I have a problem.
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Thank you!!
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Zarah:
Did you purposely use “you’re” in the title?
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I did! I was getting a little worried because no one else had mentioned it!
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Me too. I was reading the comments and no one mentioned it so I began to think I was going crazy. I read your title so many times to make sure I wasn’t missing anything before I posted my comment.
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This got me thinking of the book I am currently reading, Donald Maass’ “Writing the Breakout Novel” in which he says “The second myth of book publishing is that editors will catch and fix all of a novel’s problems” Also the post I wrote on my blog about Charles Johnson who said writers try to write too quickly and don’t get the job done right. https://susantaylorbrand.wordpress.com/2017/12/13/charles-johnson-on-the-craft-of-fiction/. The fact is, I’m just like you: I want to write it and be done with it, because once I start fiddling around it just takes all day.
I remember a story about James Joyce in which he said he was walking all over Dublin, trying to decide what order to put the words in one sentence, and that was all he got done on that given day. As an undergraduate, I thought, “What a fool!” But now, I realize that that’s the kind of effort that gets your work assigned at schools and universities.
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That’s so interesting!
I use to think that eventually I’d get a hang of writing and it would come naturally. Now I realize that a great story all depends on the effort put into it.
I appreciate James Joyce as both a person and writer, so I definitely believe he spent all day on one sentence. While I was reading Dubliners I stopped multiple time and thought to myself how great his sentences were.
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Keep in mind that the norms of punctuation use have changed a lot over the last few centuries, and aren’t even consistent from the UK to the U.S. The Victorians tended to be punctuation-heavy compared to our contemporaries. Maybe you’re just born in the wrong era!
One of my least favorite exercises in middle school was having the teacher read us the opening lines of “Huckleberry Finn” and asking us to transcribe and punctuate them. Since Twain’s own use of the language was non-standard, and since we never ever seemed to get these exercised back, I found them enormously frustrating.
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Well now I know why I tend to love Victorian authors!
And that exercise sounds like something I would have hated in school as well!
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This is so true!
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People, real people, don’t speak using textbook proper grammar. I also write the way that I speak. When I am writing dialogue I always say it all out loud to make sure it sounds “real.”
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Yes! I use too many commas when I write, because at the time it seems like the sentence needs a natural pause. However, on re-reading, it looks like I have an addiction. That last sentence is a good example…
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