Although it sounds insensitive, I think the best place to find a name for a character is at the cemetery.
Now, sometimes weird names work. Sometimes searching through google to find a name that has a meaning you think fits your character works. Then again, weird names are sometimes just weird and the name with meaning you worked so hard to find is lost on the reader because they don’t care.
But the people who are now buried beneath the ground in a wooden box were once called by the name etched in stone. They are real names. Granted, Mabel might not be the right name for your character, but it isn’t just the first name to look out for, but the last. How many times do you see “Johnson” as a last name in a novel? A lot. Names aren’t the most important thing, but to a certain extent they still matter.
It’s not my habit to stroll cemeteries, but when I do find myself in one, I take the time to walk by different headstones to discover names I would have never thought of. Sure, I could google a list of first and last names.
But in a world where we rely on google so much, must we use it to find names for our characters?
To be honest, It’s not just names, but a story can be found in the midst of a cemetery. For example:
And suddenly, my character once had a little brother, or maybe a son.
Maybe I’m crazy, but I like the idea of using storytelling for more than just fulfilling my own amusement. I like to answer my own questions. When I see this stone, I want to know what happened to the boy. I want to know what happened to the family. I can fill in the blanks through story.
Does that mean I have to name my character Samuel Jensen? No, I’m simply saying that worry less about finding the most unusual name or the name that means, “warrior,” and focus on a name that is authentic, and makes sense.
I’ll use my own name as an example. My name is Zarah, which is a biblical Hebrew name that means, “brightness,” or “sunshine.” I’ve only known girls to have the name, yet in the bible it’s given to the son of Judah.
I’ve seen my name in novels before and it confuses me. I know why I’m named Zarah, but the only reason I see it used in novels is for the sake of a “cool” or unique name.
Look, names can be really cool, but over thinking it and using some far out name is a little ridiculous. Same goes if you put no thought into it. (I’m looking at you Sarah Johnson….I’m kidding. A little.)
I think the meaning of names are interesting, but I don’t think it matters in the fictional realm, unless you’re writing fantasy or something where it’s implemented into the story.
Sure, I enjoy it when a character’s name means something that fits the character, but only when it’s found on accident. Like the author knew it was there, but didn’t care if you found it.
I don’t think using a name because it means, “sunshine,” is cool when you intentionally mention it in the novel. Or worse, you have another character mention it.
I love rare, unique, beautiful names. Having one myself, I appreciate them, but only when they make sense. (Stop trying so hard, and don’t follow celebrity tendencies.)
It all boils down to this: stay away from google and find your names in the real world.
Here’s my small disclaimer. I may know why I’m named Zarah, but it’s for the most boring reason in the world, so let’s just say all my points are about fictional names! Ha!
As a side note I’ll also mention Elie Wiesel’s novel Dawn, because I just did a post on his memoir Night. In Dawn, he uses the most simple Hebrew names, so much so I laughed out loud about it. Elisha, David, John, Gad, and Dan to name a few. One of my favorite names is Mordecai, so when I read this novel I couldn’t believe he used the skim-off-the-top bible names. His own first name is Eliezer.
Good suggestion, Zarah. I hadn’t thought of that😊
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Fantastic article. Ingenious approach.
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Thank you!
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Love it! I had to play around with my characters names once one of my friends asked me if naming a character “Daniel” meant that I was secretly in love with our mutual friend Dan. I never even thought of Dan as a Daniel, but once the question was out there I knew other friends would ask it. And I had such great reasons for wanting him to be Daniel – albeit personal ones that the reader would never know 🙂
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Lol thank you!! I tend to use names of people I know too, almost accidentally. I made a joke about it, but my best friend’s name is Sarah so I seem to always use it, even if it’s a minor character !
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I like your approach. It bothers me when writers come up with outlandish names (especially in fantasy) that you can’t even pronounce. I keep a book of baby names near my desk.
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Thats a good idea!
I’m pretty awful with pronunciation, so I’m not a big fan of crazy spelled names…espeically when they’re simple names just spelled different to be complicated 😂
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I have started a couple of fiction stories already, but I decided a long time ago that if I wrote fiction books every character would be named after someone I know or had heard of. Years back that would have crazy and would limit you, now with all the crazy names out there it makes sense. Hmmm…Special Agent Zarah Parker. Yeah, that’ll work. – Robert
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Hahahah. A special agent? In that case I don’t mind 😂
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And why isn’t it your habit to stroll through cemeteries? Got something against dead people?
Seriously, it’s worth taking a good look at that collection of headstones, tells you a bit about the times, our times, earlier times. It doesn’t have to be a colonial era cemetery with death’s heads on slate stones. Even very modern cemeteries tell stories you’ve possibly never considered. Why headstones? Why not footstones? They were used once upon a time. When did people start having colored pictures chiseled into granite stones? Why do stones from the mid-20th century usually have little but the names and dates? What ARE those fraternal organization symbols?
Even story ideas can crop up. I like to show friends a stone in my home town’s cemetery in Massachusetts. Along with the name and dates, it includes one other inscription: BURIED IN SHANGHAI, CHINA. So why is there a stone here? And what was the woman doing in Shanghai in the 1920s? I actually know the answers, because she’s a relative, but they don’t have to be the answers YOU imagine.
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Helpful, thanks.
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Someone told me something about JK Rowling strolling through cemeteries to browse through names. Ever since then, I have been wanting to do the same. Interesting that this post popped up to remind me, and I like your thoughts on this idea. 🙂
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Thanks!
It’s a little weird at first, picking names off of headstones, but often I find the most interesting names I wouldn’t have thought of.
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I really enjoyed this. Thank you for helping me to think of something new. 😊
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Thanks for reading! 😊
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It’s how the dead can live again in your fictions. Good idea.
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Thank you!
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I wonder how characters are named in TV shows?
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I imagine much the same
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