I love buying books, even when I know I won’t get the chance to read them because my to-read list is so long and forever changing. Yet, I can’t seem to walk out of a bookstore without at least one book (who am I kidding? If I’m at Half Price the chances are I’m going home with 5+) I also love going to estate sales and thrift stores to book shop. Barnes and Nobles is pretty much the bane of my existence.
Once, my friend had to talk me out of buying two different versions of the compiled Sherlock Holmes stories. It took her a long time and, well, I still think about it.
See, I want a library.
I have a lot of books. When I was younger my mom would only buy me more if I had read the ones I had, but now that I’m older, it’s gotten a little (a lot) out of hand. I tend to grab any classics I don’t already have, plus anything from a well-known author, like for example, I have a stack of Faulkner novels…I haven’t even cracked open one yet. I like to have the ones I know I should read. Sometimes I buy different copies of the same book because one has a neat cover.
But the other day I was in a bookstore and it suddenly occurred to me, are these books worth having in my library if I never get the chance to read them?
Personally, I think so. But at this point I don’t know if I’m just telling myself that so I don’t feel guilty about buying more. (The other day I bought 8 books for $20, how can that be the wrong choice?)
So I ask you, are books worth buying if you never read most of them?
I don’t know. I’ve always found the presence of books relaxing. My husband and I love going to Barnes & Noble or the central library here just to hang around books. Why not have a collection that you can go to without hopping outside and making a trip? That’s my rationale at least. I will say that our book buying has slowed down a little. Mostly out of tightening our belts than anything else. But I guarantee you that if we were free to spend as much money on books as we wanted we would have a spare room full of books (with or without bookshelves lol).
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Yeah I love being surrounded by books too! Lol I probably shouldn’t buy as many as I do but I seemingly always find such good deals lol
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One day, you will. I don’t buy books at the voracious rate you seem to, but I can say I had books sit for years on my shelves, and in the end I did get around to them. There are a few still taunting me with their uncracked spines, but their time will come!
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Well, good. I do want to read them! Haha sometimes I buy a book and know it’ll be years before I open it. Other times I buy a book and read it right away so I guess it’s okay π
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Move. Not once, but two or three times. Then tell me if you still want a library.
I own no books. I used to buy them. Read them, and leave them in the library. But today? Why would anyone ever own a book? My kindle library is chock full. My Google Play list, loaded. My Cloudlibrary, picked over a dozen times. But physical, paper books? Nope. I’ll never buy another.
Well, no, I will buy a few more. When I get my own published, I’ll drop ship them to relatives. Then they can read (or most likely, ignore) them or give them away.
https://www.bookcrossing.com/
I’ve had this discussion a dozen times over the years. Digital copies are just too damn handy. And that handiness beats the smell and feel of a book every time.
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I actually have moved twice with my load of book! Recently I helped my brother move and he had a huge collection of mostly hard back study books so I know how much it sucks Lol!
I hate ditigal books. For one, my eyes already have problems so that’s jist more time on a device my eyes have to be exposed to. And….its not really in your hands.
The only books I’ve read on my kindle are ones I know I’ll never read again. Even then if i end up liking it I buy a real copy.
They are convenient but so modern ππ
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As DesertCurmudgeon would say, another yang to your yin.
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The eternal 21st century question. I read and possess both p-books and e-books and I’ve been to seminars on the subject. One with a panel consisting of editor, publisher, bookseller, writer, librarian and archivist. Their consensus was that p-books will be around for at least another 30 years. It’s a generational thing, when the oldies go so will real books. I say if you like ’em, buy ’em.
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That’s crazy.
If they go then maybe my collection of really old books will be worth more π
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There is something about shelves full of books that makes you happy. If you like books, why not – especially if you’re buying them cheap. Multiple copies of the same book seems a bit much, but it’s your money.
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Haha thanks.
I only buy multiples of certain books, like my favorite pride and prejudice because I think it’s cool how many different covers there are.
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I personally think it’s up to you, if buying/ having those books makes you happy, then do it. Sure, it might be that you might never read them but who really knows the future, you could read them at some point in future? I have far too many books both paperbacks and e-books and sometimes I do wonder the same as you but the thing is, I am quite happy to accept that just looking at books makes me happy ( I do read them, of course). So, do what makes you happy. Are you happy with having that many books in your possession? Or would you rather give them up?
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I like having them, because I really do want a room of bookshelves I can use as a library study. It just seems so cozy. I do read a good amount of them, but I definitely buy more than I can keep up with.
I have a professor who had so many unread books that read them all and not buy anymore it would take him like 50 years or something crazy like that.
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Buying more books than you can keep up with is half the fun for me, to be honest. Of course, it’s a lovely feeling to just look at the books in our collection and just feel so comforted, right? I mean, that’s how I always feel when I look at my bookshelf.
I think your professor is kinda awesome for having so many books but then, I literally want to live in a library so maybe I am not the best person to have an opinion about things like these. π
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Haha yeah it would be pretty awesome to live in a library π
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So there is this great article on Apartment Therapy that discusses the Antilibrary. The idea being that you should have a bunch of books that you might never get to, because it’s all about the possibilities and knowledge you want to get.
I like you have the same “issue” with books – we even have a free book “store” where you can take as many books as you want in one trip – so you can imagine the problems. I have also written about it:
https://snartasticlyyours.wordpress.com/2017/08/25/books-the-addiction-is-real/
In case you want to read.
And here’s the AT article.
https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/too-many-books-antilibrary-trend-253986
In the end I say keep em coming!
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Wow that’s interesting! And yeah I’ll for sure read those, it sounds like something I’d relate to π
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I get it. Books have always been a security blanket for me. Even as a kid, I’d pack up a suitcase full of books even if my family was only going away for the weekend. There is something that just comforts me about having them around. That said, I understand the difficulty of moving with a massive library. At this point in my life I have decided that for every physical book I buy, I have to donate two. Helps me keep the ones I love and get rid of the ones I know I’ll never pick up. Having a Kindle has also helped me from letting my physical library get too out of control.
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Yeah, same. Lol I do eventually go through them and take out the ones I didn’t like or the ones I read as a teenager and know I’ll never read again and….I sell them to half price π I kinda feel bad I don’t donate them now.
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No..I should really start selling. I’m broke.
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Haha well they give you about a dollar for each book…actually probably less than that. I should probably find another place. Lol
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Last year I did something completely out of character: I gave away some books.
They were a selection of horror novels that a colleague had given me many years before and I hadn’t said no – even though I knew I’d never read them – because free books are free books π I gave them away to a this creepy used bookstore that fills an entire old farmhouse and smells out wet dog and cigarettes. And as a thank you they gave me free books – but ones I’d chosen myself.
So now I only buy the ones that I would like to read at some point. I also have Faulkner. And the initial experience was not the blow my mind one I was expecting so I’m still only 50 pages in. Five years later.
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That’s cool. And I have a few books that I that if have a different experience with, too. I’m about 100 pgs in with War and Peace and its been about a year and a half. Lol I do plan on continuing it, but it’s so long I feel like i need lots of extra time.
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LOL. I took me 6 months and a lot of trips to the library to finish The Lord of the Rings. I haven’t found a translation of War and Peace that I thought looked good. Would you recommend yours?
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I just rearranged my books so I don’t know where it is π but I can tell you I got it at Barnes and Noble and its the version that has the Russian, with footnotes in English!
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Our kids will read them if we don’t! π
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True π
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Absolutely they’re worth having π Apparently Umberto Eco had the concept of an anti-library that is when your shelves are full of books you haven’t read it’s actually better than having a shelf full of ones you have – because it spurs you on to investigate and to discovery more. A great post thanks for writing.
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Thank youπ
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You’re very welcome – it will be a sad day when personal libraries (or libraries for that matter) are no longer a thing in the world
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I’m hoping that will never happen!
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Same here π
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Absolutely but more books. Though always try to read the ones you have. Iβve told myself this year Iβm not buying more books until I finish the ones Iβve already started. Though even today I just broke that rule…
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Yeah I always try to tell myself to read the ones I have before I buy more. Then just yesterday I had to stop my self from buying my entire Amazon cart. Lol
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I think this is why e-readers and digital text will never eliminate physical books. Physical books are objects that give pleasure and possibility. They are often beautiful. We can have a connection with them that we can’t with text that exists in cyberspace.
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So true π
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Yes yes and yes! I suffer from the same weakness. I buy up books all the time, love buying them, not so thrilled that they are piling up on my nighttable unread but Iβll get thriugh them. Just think, like me, youβll never not have a book to read. I prefer the tangible weight to a digital version and thatβs why I just keep on buying them. Does that help? π
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Hahaha! Yes!! I never have to worry about running out of books to read. Although at times I want to read a particular book and its stuck somewhere underneath a big pile of books π
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